Worst Stressor: Split Decision
I intended to talk about the single most negative stressor that we face as we age, but I couldn’t pick just one. When I say stressors, I mean things we have to deal with every day, not a singular event such as an auto accident. Smoking would be the easy choice, but it doesn’t impact as many people as it used to. Here are my two choices.
Too Much Weight
Someone asked me a simple question before an Insiders Conference Call: if you could do one thing differently when you were young to improve your health, what would it be? Without hesitation my answer was I would have gotten to a normal body weight and maintained it. Being overfat impacts you as soon as you try to get out of bed: you have to overcome gravity. And it doesn’t stop there.
Every system, every organ, and every cell in your body is impacted by excess fat. Some effects are worse than others, but every cell is impacted in some way. If you can avoid gaining the weight to begin with, that’s ideal. If you’re like me and you didn’t, it’s a lifetime challenge to get to a normal weight and maintain it. I’m still working at it.
If you’re still a youngster in your 20s, 30s, or 40s, don’t postpone weight loss. Do whatever it takes to get to a normal weight (short of drug abuse or eating disorders), then develop a healthy lifestyle to keep your weight down. Even if you’re older, you can still lose weight just as my mother-in-law did in her 80s.
Chronic Pain
There are some people who don’t know what it’s like to face pain every day, but the majority of people face the daily challenge of having their lives impacted by pain as they get older. It may be joint pain in the knees. Lower back pain afflicts many. It may be nerve damage from prior accidents. But as we age, pain is the stressor that may be present all day, every day.
There is no magic wand for this stressor. For some people, if they didn’t have to think about pain, they could do so much more. Instead, it’s trying to find the right everyday changes that can make life bearable.
The Bottom Line
I think you can understand why it was a split decision. In addition, these two stressors affect each other: being overfat can make the pain worse, and having pain can prevent us from exercising to help with weight loss. It doesn’t mean there are no stressors of aging we can deal with—there definitely are. That’s what we’ll talk about in my upcoming program Aging with a Vengeance.
On next week’s Insiders Conference Call, I’ll talk more specifically about the stressors of aging and what we can do about them. Become an Insider by 8 p.m. Wednesday, December 14, and you can join the Insider call at 9 p.m.
What are you prepared to do today?
